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	<title>Comments on: Suck &#8216;N Spit on Weeds: Yes, They Really Relieved Breast Engorgement Like THAT</title>
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		<title>By: kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will try this with hubby tonight
as I am having problems right now
thanks to you all</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will try this with hubby tonight<br />
as I am having problems right now<br />
thanks to you all</p>
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		<title>By: ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 22:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my hubby milked me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my hubby milked me</p>
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		<title>By: Melodie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melodie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 03:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t watch Weeds but I am so impressed something like this happened on mainstream television! And I heard it here first! I just had to express my shared joy.
.-= Melodie&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BreastfeedingMomsUnite/~3/D6Ja_RU6VAs/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Foodie Fridays: Wild Blackberry Coffee Cake&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t watch Weeds but I am so impressed something like this happened on mainstream television! And I heard it here first! I just had to express my shared joy.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Melodie&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/BreastfeedingMomsUnite/~3/D6Ja_RU6VAs/" rel="nofollow">Foodie Fridays: Wild Blackberry Coffee Cake</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.sustainablemothering.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 01:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t watch Weeds, but what an intriguing conversation. I think my husband would attempt something like this if I could explain the necessity, but do think it would freak him out a bit. I don&#039;t think there&#039;d be any confusion that this is not sexual, as he was always uncomfortable with any leaking. Supportive of breastfeeding, but the leaking could make sex take a nosedive. 

Just to touch on @FeministBreeder&#039;s comment (but not to purposely make you nauseous). I&#039;ve done some business traveling while nursing, but pumping away on business only for relief, since there was lots at home (and baby was 18+ mos old). I hate the idea of dumping something so precious and always tend to get sick when I travel on planes. I pretty much always drink most of what I express with a pump. It&#039;s kind of sweet. It doesn&#039;t taste like cow milk at all (from what I remember) and of course it was warm. 

I really enjoyed your thoughts and all the comments.
.-= Karen&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://intentionalbirth.wordpress.com/2009/08/07/walking-the-tightrope/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Walking the Tightrope&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t watch Weeds, but what an intriguing conversation. I think my husband would attempt something like this if I could explain the necessity, but do think it would freak him out a bit. I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;d be any confusion that this is not sexual, as he was always uncomfortable with any leaking. Supportive of breastfeeding, but the leaking could make sex take a nosedive. </p>
<p>Just to touch on @FeministBreeder&#8217;s comment (but not to purposely make you nauseous). I&#8217;ve done some business traveling while nursing, but pumping away on business only for relief, since there was lots at home (and baby was 18+ mos old). I hate the idea of dumping something so precious and always tend to get sick when I travel on planes. I pretty much always drink most of what I express with a pump. It&#8217;s kind of sweet. It doesn&#8217;t taste like cow milk at all (from what I remember) and of course it was warm. </p>
<p>I really enjoyed your thoughts and all the comments.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Karen&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://intentionalbirth.wordpress.com/2009/08/07/walking-the-tightrope/" rel="nofollow">Walking the Tightrope</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.sustainablemothering.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: TheFeministBreeder</title>
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		<dc:creator>TheFeministBreeder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 15:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jake, I appreciate the help.

I acknowledge that it is very strange that I won&#039;t taste my own breastmilk - and I have never, and would never, shame another mother for doing so (I&#039;m actually pretty impressed - same way I feel about people who dive with sharks, no way I&#039;d do it, but more power to you!)

I also don&#039;t understand why being a feminist means I&#039;m required to act exactly the way any other woman would act.  My own personal feelings (call them hangups if you like) is that my breastmilk is not for my (or my husband&#039;s) consumption.  

In fact, when DH asked me what I&#039;d do if I ever found myself in this situation, and refused his help with it, I told him I&#039;d head to the nearest hospital. They all have breastpumps.  That&#039;s how far I&#039;d go to avoid my husband&#039;s mouth touching my baby&#039;s breastmilk.  Would I expect other mothers to do the same thing?  Absolutely not.  Do what works for you.
.-= TheFeministBreeder&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thefeministbreeder.typepad.com/the_feminist_breeder/2009/08/wordless-wednesday.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wordless Wednesday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jake, I appreciate the help.</p>
<p>I acknowledge that it is very strange that I won&#8217;t taste my own breastmilk &#8211; and I have never, and would never, shame another mother for doing so (I&#8217;m actually pretty impressed &#8211; same way I feel about people who dive with sharks, no way I&#8217;d do it, but more power to you!)</p>
<p>I also don&#8217;t understand why being a feminist means I&#8217;m required to act exactly the way any other woman would act.  My own personal feelings (call them hangups if you like) is that my breastmilk is not for my (or my husband&#8217;s) consumption.  </p>
<p>In fact, when DH asked me what I&#8217;d do if I ever found myself in this situation, and refused his help with it, I told him I&#8217;d head to the nearest hospital. They all have breastpumps.  That&#8217;s how far I&#8217;d go to avoid my husband&#8217;s mouth touching my baby&#8217;s breastmilk.  Would I expect other mothers to do the same thing?  Absolutely not.  Do what works for you.<br />
<span class="cluv"> TheFeministBreeder&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://thefeministbreeder.typepad.com/the_feminist_breeder/2009/08/wordless-wednesday.html" rel="nofollow">Wordless Wednesday</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.sustainablemothering.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jake</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 12:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Draw those fangs in @Kristin! @FeministBreeder didn&#039;t condemn anyone for drinking their own breast milk.  She personally is repelled by it. I don&#039;t see where feminism comes into this or how not wanting to drink breast milk (or have your mate drink yours) makes you any less a feminist.

Your comment reminds me of a Wendy Wasserstein play from the &#039;70s in which young feminists at a seven sisters school are discussing what they considered a rite of passage for young feminists: tasting their menstrual blood.  It is ridiculous to say the willingness to do act X entirely defines whether you can be a feminist is ... well ...not feminist. I never tasted by own breast milk. The color was off-putting to me and I dislike any animal milk. It was a sensory issue, not a feminist one.
.-= Jake&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://blog.jakemarcus.com/2009/08/04/suck-n-spit-on-weeds-yes-they-really-relieved-breast-engorgement-like-that/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Suck ‘N Spit on Weeds: Yes, They Really Relieved Breast Engorgement Like THAT&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Draw those fangs in @Kristin! @FeministBreeder didn&#8217;t condemn anyone for drinking their own breast milk.  She personally is repelled by it. I don&#8217;t see where feminism comes into this or how not wanting to drink breast milk (or have your mate drink yours) makes you any less a feminist.</p>
<p>Your comment reminds me of a Wendy Wasserstein play from the &#8217;70s in which young feminists at a seven sisters school are discussing what they considered a rite of passage for young feminists: tasting their menstrual blood.  It is ridiculous to say the willingness to do act X entirely defines whether you can be a feminist is &#8230; well &#8230;not feminist. I never tasted by own breast milk. The color was off-putting to me and I dislike any animal milk. It was a sensory issue, not a feminist one.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Jake&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://blog.jakemarcus.com/2009/08/04/suck-n-spit-on-weeds-yes-they-really-relieved-breast-engorgement-like-that/" rel="nofollow">Suck ‘N Spit on Weeds: Yes, They Really Relieved Breast Engorgement Like THAT</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.sustainablemothering.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Monique</title>
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		<dc:creator>Monique</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 12:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is an astonishing conversation! I&#039;d never have thought of using my hubby - I had good luck with both manual pumps and electric pumps - but totally understand the need to get that extra milk out! Having said that, I nursed two babies and my husband was always totally supportive as well as completely happy with my breastfeeding. If I&#039;d needed him to do this, I&#039;m sure he would have - without confusing it with anything sexual. I am a great supporter of breastfeeding and often remind women about the virtues of pretty nursing bras so they can be both mama and lover - after all, why not?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an astonishing conversation! I&#8217;d never have thought of using my hubby &#8211; I had good luck with both manual pumps and electric pumps &#8211; but totally understand the need to get that extra milk out! Having said that, I nursed two babies and my husband was always totally supportive as well as completely happy with my breastfeeding. If I&#8217;d needed him to do this, I&#8217;m sure he would have &#8211; without confusing it with anything sexual. I am a great supporter of breastfeeding and often remind women about the virtues of pretty nursing bras so they can be both mama and lover &#8211; after all, why not?</p>
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		<title>By: Beth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 00:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Add my voice to the chorus of ladies who&#039;ve done this for a plugged duct. It didn&#039;t help, in my case, and like Morgan it was crossed wires just trying. But he didn&#039;t mind it. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Add my voice to the chorus of ladies who&#8217;ve done this for a plugged duct. It didn&#8217;t help, in my case, and like Morgan it was crossed wires just trying. But he didn&#8217;t mind it. <img src='http://www.sustainablemothering.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: ladykay</title>
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		<dc:creator>ladykay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 00:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My nursing days are long past as my youngest is 22 years old, but, yes, my husband helped me out on occasion.  It was absolutely not a sexy thing for me, you don&#039;t feel particularly sexy when your breasts are overly full.  My hubby loved breastmilk and he would swallow, but a friend commented to me that when her husband did it he would spit it out.    

I can also remember someone else suggesting, when I was very engorged after my daughter was born and we were discussing ways to relieve it that I could always &quot;do husband.&quot;  So, it&#039;s certainly not an unheard of thing.

BTW, I remember my grandmother (who was born in 1901) telling me that when she was young if a mother had too much milk, she would &quot;get a puppy.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My nursing days are long past as my youngest is 22 years old, but, yes, my husband helped me out on occasion.  It was absolutely not a sexy thing for me, you don&#8217;t feel particularly sexy when your breasts are overly full.  My hubby loved breastmilk and he would swallow, but a friend commented to me that when her husband did it he would spit it out.    </p>
<p>I can also remember someone else suggesting, when I was very engorged after my daughter was born and we were discussing ways to relieve it that I could always &#8220;do husband.&#8221;  So, it&#8217;s certainly not an unheard of thing.</p>
<p>BTW, I remember my grandmother (who was born in 1901) telling me that when she was young if a mother had too much milk, she would &#8220;get a puppy.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Milkmaid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Milkmaid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 21:54:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband has taken care of my engorgement(and a plugged duct, once) so  many times I think he&#039;s starting to get a kick out of it, onoz. Like a lot of men are wont to do, he found me irresistible when I was pregnant, and fell in love with my body all over again postpartum. My boobs were still the boobs he loves, even five times their normal sized and steadily dripping. Just like the stretch marks I got, easy to overlook.


And being lactose intolerant, my own milk doesn&#039;t send him to the toilet for forty-five minutes like cow&#039;s milk does. He made chocolate milk with it once, didn&#039;t taste any different from regular milk, lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband has taken care of my engorgement(and a plugged duct, once) so  many times I think he&#8217;s starting to get a kick out of it, onoz. Like a lot of men are wont to do, he found me irresistible when I was pregnant, and fell in love with my body all over again postpartum. My boobs were still the boobs he loves, even five times their normal sized and steadily dripping. Just like the stretch marks I got, easy to overlook.</p>
<p>And being lactose intolerant, my own milk doesn&#8217;t send him to the toilet for forty-five minutes like cow&#8217;s milk does. He made chocolate milk with it once, didn&#8217;t taste any different from regular milk, lol.</p>
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